Expectations vs. reality: having a male best friend
Or a bottle of your favourite alcohol? Men and women can be just friends. You can take him home to your parents without friendd being a big deal. Most friendships are based around common interests.
After writing this I am now more certain than ever that all men secretly watch Sex and the City. Nate and Jason, the Best of Friends Buddy selfies.
Guys get moody and weird and jealous and competitive and selfish just as much as women do. This can be so cute and so fun, but problems start arising when I'm interested in the movie and I can't focus with your hand sensually rubbing my upper thigh. Pick an activity that relates to your shared interests, then invite him to go with you as friends. They pick up technique and positions and everything.
Now take every single negative attribute of a female. On the other hand, my closest guy friends have all been over to my house a million times and my mom definitely likes a few of them more than she likes me. Two years ago I accidentally burped during the talent show and thought it would be a good idea to burp the rest of the song. Over time, guy friends slowly become your personal bodyguards and take the place of your protective brothers.
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Friends are there for each other during tough times, so be there for him when he's struggling. The emotional fall-out from hooking up with your male BFF and having it not work out burns hotter than a thousand suns, and is more painful than a thousand awkward OkCupid dates. Instead, share small personal details with him at first. In fact, we can, and often do, talk about pooping, burping and farting while talking with our mouths filled to the brim.
As someone with a penchant for the finer things in life, I often find dinner nede to be a bit of a challenge. Are my best friends going to actually go beat the crap out of someone?
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While they might not care about your trivial problems, they always make sure to check up on you or show up at your doorstep when things get difficult. Be honest with him about your interests and ideas.
Then, paraphrase what he said back to him so he knows you were listening. However, with guys, there is usually no drama besf arguments. Handy Man Your reaction Thank you! I wish I had a solution, or even a suggestion for a solution to the problem.
We all need a sounding board
I grew up without a Dad and I always felt like I was missing out by not having anywhere there to watch over my shoulder or protect me from the big, mean boys out there who were going to take my heart, tear it to pieces and hand it back to me. As mentioned earlier, your male best friend is not interested in your rack. Oh yeah, that's right: forever. While you can hit the mall with your girl friends, you can still enjoy a sports game with guy friends and simultaneously feed both of your interests.
I'm not saying we deserve a medal for dealing with the pressure of everyone's suspicions and expectations and still managing to maintain kick-ass friendships in the process, but You question how you can be completely at ease with them, so comfortable, how they would do anything in the world for you, how they can know everything about you, see you at your worst and still think the sun shines out your backside and not be attracted to them. If me and my girlfriends have a plan then we will have everything down to a T days, even weeks, beforehand.
14 reasons why having a guy best friend is better than a boyfriend
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Guys often have a really hard time differentiating "cool girl" from "girl I wanna sleep with. If you rush things, he may pull away from you. Men do play games and they know criend we are playing games with them.
Every last gory little detail? He mentioned that he was planning to share one as well.